"I'm Deborah Guy—executive coach, fear mastery specialist, and founder of Grounded Leadership™.

I was handpicked by a Fortune 100 Chairman to direct their executive coaching program. I've worked with leaders across industries and continents. But the most important decision I ever made had nothing to do with a title.

At 38, I walked away from a career that looked like success to build a life that actually felt like mine. It was the first time I trusted myself more than I trusted my fear.

You're not stuck—you're on the edge of a breakthrough

As an executive coach for leaders navigating promotion points and pivots, I help you develop the clarity, courage, and confidence to lead without self-sabotage.

That's the work I do now. Whether you're preparing for your next role or learning how to thrive in the one you've just stepped into, something deeper than strategy is at work. This is why executive coaching for leaders focuses not on tactics, but on the invisible patterns that keep capable people playing smaller than their potential.

The result? You stop performing confidence and start actually living from it."

Are You Getting in Your Own Way?

Executive coaching is a professional development partnership that helps leaders recognize blind spots, overcome internal barriers, and build the confidence to lead at their full potential. Unlike consulting (which provides answers) or therapy (which explores the past), executive coaching focuses on unlocking what's already within you—the self-trust and clarity you need to take decisive action now.

Research published in Harvard Business Review found that 85% of executives identified "fear of not being good enough" as a significant barrier to their performance. The International Coaching Federation reports that 86% of companies saw positive ROI from executive coaching investments, with leaders reporting improved confidence, communication, and decision-making. (Sources: Harvard Business Review; ICF Global Coaching Study 2023)

85% of executives identified "fear of not being good enough" as a significant barrier to their performance.

86% of companies saw positive ROI from executive coaching investments

Research from the Harvard Business Review

reports from The International Coaching Federation

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Cut through the noise. We define what matters now—for your life, your relationships, and your path forward. No more getting lost in everyone else's priorities.

→ Ask yourself: What noise have you been trying to lead through?

What Does Executive Coaching

Name the real obstacles. Fear doesn't always look like fear—it shows up as overthinking, avoidance, imposter syndrome, or burnout. Together, we'll identify what's underneath these patterns and reclaim your power to lead with courage.

→ Ask yourself: Which of these patterns feels most familiar right now?
Build sustainable systems. Leadership requires more than good intentions. We'll create the habits, systems, and internal alignment that support your growth without burning you out.

→ Ask yourself: What would change if you trusted your own judgment completely?

Practice brave leadership. Not fearless—that's impossible. But the kind of courage that moves forward even when fear is present, making decisions from your values rather than your anxieties.

→ Ask yourself: What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail?

 for Leaders Actually Look Like?

 "Grounded Leadership is achieved by completing the groundwork of personal fear mastery, enabling you to raise your impact professionally and personally."
Ground Work
Grounded Leadership
 Raise Your Impact

IF ANY OF THIS FEELS FAMILIAR, WE SHOULD TALK

Something's gotta shift—you can feel it.

You want to stop second-guessing yourself in the moments that matter. You want clarity about what's actually holding you back—instead of managing around the same patterns for another year. You want to make decisions from your values, not your anxiety. And you want to finally trust yourself as much as everyone else seems to trust you.

Whether that shows up as a career breakthrough or a personal one—the work is the same.
Let's have a Real Conversation

Let's have a Real Conversation

How Does Executive Coaching Work?

Step 1:Lets' Have A Conversation

We meet confidentially via Zoom. No sales pressure, just honest dialogue about where you are and where you want to be. You'll get answers about my background, my approach and how we'd work together based on your specific goals.
If we're both excited to move forward, we take the next step.

Clear expectations in writing: confidentiality, investment, and what we're both bringing to this partnership.




We'll create a clear plan based on your goals and where you are right now. Whether you're here for a personal breakthrough, a career shift, or both—we'll build a path that actually fits. You'll have momentum toward the life and leader you're becoming.

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step 2: A Simple Agreement

Step 3: Then The Real Work Begins

For Individuals Ready to Transform. 

For people ready to stop managing around fear and start living from their actual power. This isn't therapy. It's the deep, practical work of fear mastery, identity, and self-trust.

We address the patterns underneath the patterns: self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, emotional reactivity, and the quiet ways you've been abandoning yourself.

You don't need a title or a team to do this work. You just need to be ready.

Investment: Premium tier, Same structure as Executive Coaching. Application Required. 

PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH COACHING

Create the Life Your Soul Intended

Ways that we work together

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Raise Your Impact

Limited availability, by application only.

For leaders in significant career transitions who need real-time support navigating communication breakdowns, self-doubt, leadership blind spots, and role adjustments. This is where your external ambitions meet internal capacity.

This isn't about fixing what's "wrong" with you—nothing is. This is about building the internal leadership capacity that matches your external ambitions. I witness the leader and the life you say you want—and hold you accountable for achieving it.

Investment: Premium tier, pay-as-you-go. No long-term contracts because your growth shouldn't feel like another obligation.

This work is by application only. Not because it's exclusive, but because it requires readiness for strategic intervention—not formulaic programs.

Strategic Intervention for Leaders in Transition

EXECUTIVE COACHING

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Cohort Based, Community Supported. 

Essential Foundation for Emotionally Intelligent Leadership

GROUNDED LEADERSHIP™ GROUP

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In an age where AI can handle technical tasks with increasing sophistication, the leaders who thrive aren't the ones with the most advanced tools—they're the ones with the most developed human skills.

Emotional intelligence isn't a "soft skill" anymore. It's your competitive advantage.

Build emotional intelligence and self-regulation under pressure in a community setting. This isn't a "starter option"—it's an essential foundation for sustainable leadership growth in an era where human connection, trust-building, and emotional leadership separate those who advance from those who plateau.

The Grounded Leadership™ Group serves dual purposes:
- Entry path for leaders building foundational skills before or instead of private coaching
- Reinforcement system for leaders maintaining momentum and practicing what they've learned

What you'll develop:
- Recognition of fear-based patterns in real-time
- Self-regulation techniques under pressure
- Courage-based decision making
- Emotional leadership capacity that AI can't replicate
- Community accountability

Investment: Accessible tier, cohort-based. Space is limited to maintain group intimacy and coaching quality.

January Cohort Now Open

Cohort Based, Community Supported. 

For IT Leaders Navigating Industry Disruption

SCOUT TO SAGE FRAMEWORK

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Technical expertise got you here. What's next requires a different kind of leadership.

As AI automates more technical functions, your value as a leader shifts from what you can do to how you can lead. The leaders who thrive aren't fighting the disruption—they're developing the distinctly human capacities that AI can't replicate: strategic thinking, team trust-building, emotional intelligence, and the courage to lead through uncertainty.

The Scout to Sage Framework helps IT leaders navigate this shift—moving from reactive problem-solver (Scout) to strategic visionary (Sage). This specialized approach addresses both the strategic challenges of transformation and the fear-based obstacles that show up during massive change.

This framework is for IT leaders who:
- Are preparing for or adjusting to expanded leadership responsibility
- Need to lead teams through significant technological transformation
- Face increasing pressure to be strategic, not just technical
- Recognize that emotional intelligence is now their competitive advantage

The work blends Grounded Leadership™ principles with IT-specific challenges, helping you lead the transformation—not just manage the technology.


Most leadership development focuses on what to do. This is Grounded Leadership™—an approach that focuses on what's stopping you from doing it.

Because here's the truth: You already know more than you think you do.

The challenge isn't lacking information—it's navigating the fear that comes with stepping into bigger leadership, making bolder moves, and trusting yourself in new territory.

As a certified fear mastery coach with 25+ years of experience helping leaders break through their invisible barriers, I don't just help you identify what's holding you back. I help you develop the internal resources to move through it—again and again.

What if you could lead without managing fear?

I stand as a witness for the leader you're becoming. A partner in building the personal foundation that supports sustainable success. And a champion for your growth, especially when your own inner critic gets loud.

This work changes careers. But more importantly, it changes how you experience your own life. 


Grounded Leadership™ is an executive coaching methodology that helps leaders recognize and move through fear-based patterns—imposter syndrome, perfectionism, self-sabotage, and overthinking—to lead with confidence and clarity. Developed by certified fear mastery coach Deborah Guy, this approach doesn't eliminate fear (which is impossible) but teaches leaders to master their relationship with fear so it no longer drives their decisions.
A meta-analysis in the Journal of Positive Psychology found that coaching interventions showed significant positive effects on performance, well-being, coping, and self-regulation. Leaders who invest in executive coaching report an average 70% improvement in work performance and 51% improvement in team effectiveness. (Sources: Journal of Positive Psychology; ICF/PwC Global Coaching Study)

70% improvement in work performance

51% improvement in team effectiveness.

Leaders who invest in executive coaching

Why This Approach Works

I appreciate Deborah’s coaching style and thoughtful approach.

Through conversation and reflection, she helped me understand the value of being open to questions—not judging them, but exploring what they reveal about my thinking.

Her ability to ask the right questions is truly impressive. She challenges me to consider new perspectives and, most importantly… to uncover my own answers.

Rebecca Bowman, Clorox,
From Director Customer Operations to Managing Director, Global Process Owner

For me, Deborah is the perfect cognitive mirror. She helps me see and hear my own thought processes—especially where I tend to derail myself.

It’s like having a second brain that helps me align my thoughts with my values and distill them into a clear action plan.

In essence, she’s helping me right my ship. She’s been an invaluable resource to us over the last two years—and will continue to be for years to come.

- Eric Randolph,
Pursued and attained a new position More aligned with his values and Career Goals

“I have found insight that has eluded me for years and conquered a number of fears that had been holding me back... I've found new direction in my life, built new confidence, and embarked on a new chapter.” 

Timothy Moon,
 Sales Manager to Regional Manager of Business Development

Deborah is an excellent choice for executives navigating their next career move. Her approach is thoughtful and caring—never forceful or formulaic. She listens deeply, meets you where you are, and helps you move forward with clarity. I’d confidently recommend her to friends and colleagues looking for a results-driven coaching partner

Brian K. Bridges, Ph.D. 
From Executive Director and Vice President at United Negro College Fund to Secretay of Higher Education for the State of New Jersey. 

Deborah is a rock star! She helped me uncover the blind spots that were holding me back—and held me accountable for making real change. I now recognize strengths I once mistook for weaknesses. With Deborah’s guidance, I found the courage to step into the person I was always meant to be.

Jeanne Cooper,
Co-Founder, Brainstorm Health Systems, Hudson Valley, NY

What Real Transformation Looks Like. 

Frequently Asked Questions

About Executive Coaching

What is executive coaching?

Executive coaching is a professional development partnership between a trained coach and a leader seeking to improve their performance, confidence, and effectiveness. Unlike consulting, which provides external expertise, executive coaching helps you unlock insights and capabilities you already possess but haven't fully accessed. Sessions typically focus on real-time leadership challenges, decision-making, communication, and the internal patterns that may be limiting your potential.

How is executive coaching different from therapy?

Executive coaching is present-and-future focused, working on goals, performance, and leadership challenges you want to address now. Therapy typically explores past experiences to understand root causes of emotional difficulties and may address clinical conditions. Coaching assumes you're fundamentally capable and healthy—you're not broken, you may just have patterns that aren't serving you. If clinical mental health concerns are present, therapy is the appropriate starting point.

How do I know if I need an executive coach?

Consider executive coaching if you're a high-performer who feels stuck, a leader preparing for promotion or adjusting to a new role, or someone who recognizes patterns (overthinking, imposter syndrome, self-sabotage) that are limiting your potential. Coaching is for people who are ready to invest in themselves and do the work—not for those seeking quick fixes or someone to tell them what to do.

How long does executive coaching take to show results?

Most clients notice shifts in perspective within the first few sessions. Meaningful behavioral change typically emerges within 2-3 months. Sustainable transformation—where new patterns become automatic—usually develops over 6-12 months of consistent coaching. The timeline depends on the depth of patterns being addressed and your engagement between sessions.

What's the ROI of executive coaching?

According to the International Coaching Federation, companies that invest in coaching report a median ROI of 7x their initial investment. Individual leaders report improvements in confidence, communication, work-life balance, and team effectiveness. Beyond measurable metrics, many clients describe coaching as the catalyst for breakthroughs they'd been unable to achieve on their own.

What happens in an executive coaching session?

Sessions are confidential conversations focused on your real-time leadership challenges. We explore situations you're navigating, identify patterns that may be limiting you, and develop practical approaches you can apply immediately. Between sessions, you'll have reflections, tools, and accountability to maintain momentum. This isn't advice-giving—it's a partnership that helps you access your own wisdom and build self-trust.

a note about our
Conversation

This isn't a coaching session. It's a strategic conversation where we explore:

- Whether we're a good fit to work together

- Which pathway best serves where you are right now (Personal breakthrough? Leadership coaching? The Group? Scout to Sage?)

- What success would actually look like for you

You'll get a sense of my approach, I'll get a sense of where you're headed, and together we'll decide on the right next step—even if that's not working together.

If I'm not the right fit, I'll gladly point you toward someone who is. If another path serves you better right now, I'll tell you that too.

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Let's find out what makes sense for You. 

Not Every Coach is the Right Match. Let’s See If We Click.

Not every offering serves every goal. Let's figure out which path fits where you are right now.

This conversation helps us both get clear.


    Clarity starts with a real conversation. 

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